I love my clothes and I see them as a way of expressing myself to myself. I do try to choose what I like but inevitably, buying clothes in these times, means that I go to a shop and buy what I like there, but I am aware that I am buying the clothes someone else is liking who, in their turn, have been influenced by someone who presented these clothes in a way the designer and manufacturer thought it was good to show them so that as much people as possible would 'fall' for them. Phew...
There was a time in my life that I noticed that when I wore a certain garb, I would meet the same people. I had made a Chanel-type hounds-tooth woolen dress, and every time I would wear that one, I would meet Ronnie D. In my red blouse and matching skirt, I would invariably chat with Layla S.... and so forth. I started experimenting with it and wear certain clothes (strong colours) to see if I could attract the people I associated these colours with. And it worked. Not surprisingly that I became an artist later on and that now I work with colours in my reading and holistic energy treatment practice.
So, is it possible for me to express myself through what I wear? I have noticed the trend for all shades of grey fashion at the moment. Not only outer clothes but also underware, shoes and handbags are grey at the moment. This explosion of the grey-trend, for me, started last year and counting what grey I have in my wardrobe - twinset, blouse, skirt, trousers, my new winter shoes - not much different from what I see other women and men in the street are wearing.
I think grey in all shades is flattering for most skin tones but I think there is an underlying reason we/I run for grey now. (Beside what fashion trendsetters had in mind for us). In the Victorian age, 1837 - 1901, there were strict dress-codes for mourning. The first year after a close relative had died, women and men were wearing black, this was called "deep mourning" , the second year of mourning some white details could appear in the daily attire and the first six months of the third year, kown as half-mourning, shades of grey were permitted.
Readers beware! This dress code and its material was only obtainable for the well-off and "higher" echelons of society. Women and men who had to go out and work had no time to indulge their outer mourning for such a long period of time. Higher classed women, for instance, were not expected to leave their houses for social purposes for the first year of mourning. Imagine a widowed woman with eight children or more, working in a factory pulling that one off.
Could it be possible that - where ever we are and where ever we're coming from - a dress code, a remnant from Victorian times is still in our consciousness? Are we dressing, or being dressed, through this grey wave in fashion, in half-mourning? Are we preparing ourselves for a changing world by being in mourning for what once was? At the moment everything is changing: the politics of several European countries are making a firm - in my mind, scary - jerk to the right, consumerism is rife and nature will not be the same soon, with more and more GMO crops around.
Are we conscious of the fact that we are the change, that change is in our hands? I wonder where the deep mourning phase is situated: are we past it, or is it yet to come? I would like to think we are past it and we don't have to go the mourning dress code in reverse order. If not... well we cannot afford to hide indoors for too long, we have to get out and show who we are and what we can do to make a change in the world for the better; for love, community and conscious living. I'll start wearing my grey with turqoises and oranges and much sparkle, and be conscious what I attract today, of goodness and inspiration and people in my life.
- Karin Schluter Lonegren
karin@sunnybankglastonbury.co.uk
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